Your Perspective makes failure to thrive!!
Your right approaches lead to success. It depends on how you handles your failure.
I would wish to differentiate you a tale to explain my point of view.
It is the tale of three average students in academics. Identically, all students perform very poorly in their class test.
His Mark makes no difference to the first student, how he performs in class test. He has no slight trouble, tension and anxiety how he perform.
Other students think, “I am stupid too much, I can’t do anything in my life, no matter how shall I read. I guess some people are really born stupid. How much I read still I don’t score good grades.
Third, students think, “this time I had scored low marks in my class test, next time I will score good marks and I will work very hard to come first in class. May be that’s why god has paid such low marks to inspire me to score full grades.
Next time exam was held first two students succeed to fail and the third student stood first in class.
This short and simple story conveys messages to us, anyone can change the perspective to turn failure into success.
William James has said
“The greatest discovery of any generation is that a human can alter his life by altering his attitude”
Some of us don’t matter if they fail. But on the other hand, many of them us, fail more than once feel inferior.
But we forget that after becoming unsuccessful, the pain of failure becomes too much energy (scientifically proven) that we can use to be to turn successful.
Tom Watson of IBM said, “if you want to become successful then make your failure rate twice”. After stumbling ask ourselves what we have learned from this failure. Failure to succeed looks at by virtue of the persuasiveness of the every great man.
Some examples of great personalities.
- The greatest example is Abraham Lincoln. At the age of 20 years, he failed in business. When he was 22 years, he lost the election; at the age of 24 years he again started a business and he fails again, at the age of 26 he was devastated by the death of his wife, at the age of 27 years, he nervous become breakdown, at the age of 34 and 45 years in the senate election, he lost the election. He missed being a vice president at the age of 47 and at the age of 47 he again lost the senate election. More than 30 years of battle and not disheartened by the failure due to this quality finally Abraham Lincoln at the age of 52 years he becomes the 16th America president. Who turn the best leader and called back as world best leader.
- DR.A.P.J Abdul Kalam, who failed in the test of the pilot, but the steering of a saint he had caused his failure as strength and succeeds in many varieties. If he was disheartened by failure, did we get in such a great person in the form of a teacher, scientist and a good president?
- Jan Koum and Brian Acton when they were seeking for the job in Facebook they got rejected and because of insufficient knowledge of coding. Later both of them created a what’s App. Facebook has brought the what’s App for 22$million, who was rejected the earlier.
Who has not bombed in their life, but the difference is, successful people know really easily how to turn their failure to prosper. So friends whenever you fail (which is natural) not to be discouraged if you fail, make your failure as strength. Allow the heartache of failure remain inside in your core and makes the use of spark of grief and turn the failure into success.